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Wonder, what a woman want today

Recently, my friends ask my opinion bout what I will be choosing become a mom and housewife and not working or reverse become a mom and housewife and can still do my career.
The viewpoint's my friend, which in a fact they are men, said they prefer with a girl that stay at home. And It's not wrong, I agree that woman naturally have responbility to nurture their children and her husband, and most of us are  educated by a non-career mom. But today, life is not simple as if 10 years ago, me like another human need actualization to be useful in society, moreover in my production years.
Just like Katy perry said in her movie, a part of me, that we are women not asking more , not demand a greater status than a man, we need a partner that can understand us and able to discuss everything, and the important thing that they can accept what we are.
I remember  when I attended Kartini's day event at the office, there was talkshow about how become smart worker and lovely mom, the President Director, Pak Ancha said that no matter how hard we work, the family is the first.
I need partner that we have a big dream, passionate in life and life after death, raising great children, be useful in the society, doing the carrer with the heart, reaching a big things, doing have fun and doing the ridiculous things together
And by together we can conquer the world.

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